Over the Cliff
Gay Husbands in Straight Marriages
by Bonnie Kaye, M.Ed. and Doug Dittmer
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About the Authors
Over the Cliff is a self-help book for husbands and wives living in straight/gay marriages.
Over three million gay men in the United States and millions more around the world are living double lives in
marriages to women due to societal pressures or a lack of understanding their homosexuality at the time of
marriage. This book has over a dozen interviews with men who have lived through this experience and offer their
insights to others.
The book is co-authored by Bonnie Kaye, M.Ed., an internationally recognized counseling specialist for straight
wives married to gay men and Doug Dittmer, a gay husband peer counselor who has worked with Kaye over the past
five years helping numerous gay men in marriages come to terms with their homosexuality so they can move on to
more fulfilling lives.
Bonnie Kaye is an internationally recognized Relationship Counselor/Author in the field of straight/gay
marriages. She has provided relationship counseling for over 25 years with more than 70,000 women who have
sexually dysfunctional husbands due to homosexuality, bisexuality, transgenderism or sexual addictions. She
is considered an authority in this field by other professionals and the media. Kaye has published five books
on straight/gay relationships, which have sold thousands of copies. Her website www.Gayhusbands.com
has consistently remained in the number one position on Google, Yahoo, and other major search engines since
itís launching in 2000. When media contacts want an expert, they come to Bonnie Kaye who has more experience
and expertise than any other person in this country. Her official book website is located at www.BonnieKayeBooks.com.
Kayeís other books include: The Gay Husband Checklist for Women Who Wonder; Doomed Grooms: Gay Husbands
of Straight Wives; ManReaders: A Woman's Guide to Dysfunctional Men; Straight Wives: Shattered Lives; Bonnie
Kayeís Straight Talk; and How I Made My Husband Gay: Myths About Straight Wives.
With over 30 years experience in business management, Talent Acquisition and Executive Recruitment, Doug
Dittmerís career has depended on his ability to coach clients and employees in problem resolution. Eighteen
years into his marriage, Doug faced his own crisis and announced that he was gay. In 1981 Doug put his skills
to work to fight discrimination against lesbian, gay and bisexual people. Doug began as a Legislative Lobbyist
for the Michigan Organization for Human Rights (MOHR), the Stateís premier gay rights organization. Within a
short time he was elected as the groupís Education Officer, charged with the responsibility of educating the
general public about lesbian and gay issues. Doug went on to be elected President of the organization. Under
his leadership, a task force of volunteer litigation attorneys was recruited to overturn Michiganís sodomy
statutes. Two years later, in MOHR v. Kelly, MOHR achieved that objective when the Wayne County Circuit Court
ruled the statute as unconstitutional. In November 1985, the Detroit City Council recognized his achievements
and leadership in the area of human rights by awarding him the Spirit of Detroit Award. Over the years since,
Doug has reached out to other gay men coming to terms with their sexuality in mid-life, acting as peer counselor
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